Seriously, sometimes I really wonder about people. Let’s say I know this family. For the purpose of this post, let’s say this family is related to my family. (No, it’s not my immediate family just so you know.)
So they’ve always had some problems. They’ve always been on welfare (social assistance for the non-Canadians) because of laziness first, and extreme illness mostly. That’s not even my issue. Social assistance is there to help those who need it, and hell, they need help. I won’t even comment on what the welfare cheque is used to buy. None of my business, but infuriating none the less.
Anyway, oldest child has problems. And not like dumped by the boyfriend problems, like mental issues which require medications. Still, no problem for me. I’m just finishing my Psychology degree. I understand that mental illness is not the fault of the individual and that it can be regulated so that the person functions wonderfully within society. So oldest child gets pregnant. Being a frequent flyer with Social Services her entire life, they’re not overly excited for her … and neither am I but who am I to judge. Mistakes do happen. It’s no secret this baby will be taken away. She can’t even take care of herself. Baby comes, is beautiful and her mother (who is riddled with cancer by the way) loves her as soon as she lays eyes on her. Probably not the best move, her mother adopts the baby almost 2 years later. Oldest child probably saw the little one less than a handfull of times. Fine, some people just aren’t naturally maternal.
Few months after adoption goes through, oldest child has some news … she’s pregnant … again. Ok, seriously? Are you kidding? Did you learn nothing? There are people in this world who would kill to have children, who would be amazing parents, and SHE gets herself impregnated once again? Her mother says she cannot take another baby, at her age and in her state of illness she just can’t handle it. Baby hasn’t arrived yet, but will be taken away as soon as he or she enters the world. Far better for the baby I believe. It’s not their fault and they deserve a wonderful and loving life.
Newest news from this family, youngest child has a surprise … guess who’s pregnant?? SERIOUSLY??? You have to be joking. She’s 16. She just watched her sister make this error in judgement … TWICE!! Birth control is wonderful! It can be found for FREE!! FREEEEEEE!!! Not many things are free today, but you can get free birth control!!! I’ve been with L33tz0r for over 3 years now. We live together. We sleep in the same bed *gasp*. (Never said I was without sin!) But somehow, through the miracles of modern science along with common sense, I have managed to keep myself pregnancy free. Even if I were to find myself with child, I’m 24 years old, have a university degree and a job. Sure, not my ideal situation, but it would not end my world.
Why is it so difficult for so many young girls? Mistakes happen. We live and we learn. Sometimes these things happen to SMART girls. Girls who come from GOOD families and backgrounds. And then there are the ones like this family who infuriate me beyond belief.
Thanks for listening interwebs
If I have caused offence to any, please accept my apologies and feel free to voice your own opinion. Perhaps I am missing something important.
Rant off.
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